“Ma’am, stop acting like you’re the victim. You’re the one who chose to get on a plane with a newborn and a little girl.”
The woman said it loudly enough that several people in Row 11 immediately turned to look at me.
My son, Leo, was only six weeks old.
He was asleep against my chest in the soft blue carrier my mother had given me shortly before she passed away. His tiny cheek rested against my shirt, his warm breath dampening the fabric with every sleepy exhale.
Beside me stood my ten-year-old daughter, Maya, gripping the straps of her purple backpack covered in tiny embroidered stars.
This was the first time I had ever traveled alone with both of my children.
We were flying from Chicago to Orlando, where my sister had offered to let us stay with her for a few weeks.
My husband, David, was away working long hours on a construction project, and I had not slept more than three hours at a time since Leo was born.
Because of that, I had planned every detail of this trip obsessively.
I paid extra for two adjoining seats with additional legroom.
One seat for Maya.
One for me, with Leo traveling on my lap.
I selected Row 11 myself.
I checked our boarding passes repeatedly.
I arrived at O’Hare far earlier than necessary because the last thing I wanted was unnecessary stress.
But when we finally reached Row 11, someone was already sitting in my seat.
The woman looked to be in her early fifties.
Designer sunglasses rested on top of her head.
Her beige trench coat was spread across part of the seat.
A large leather tote blocked part of the aisle.
She had even removed her shoes and placed one bare foot against the wall of the aircraft as though the entire row belonged to her.
I tried to remain calm.
“Excuse me. I believe these are our seats.”
She slowly looked up.
First at me.
Then at Leo sleeping against my chest.
Then at Maya.
And without saying anything, she slid her noise-canceling headphones back over her ears.
“I’m already comfortable,” she said.
I stared at her.
Then I pulled out our boarding passes.
“We’re assigned 11A and 11B.”
She pulled one side of the headphones away from her ear and gave an exaggerated sigh.
“It’s always the same with mothers,” she muttered. “You have children and suddenly you expect everyone around you to inconvenience themselves for you.”
Maya immediately lowered her eyes.
Leo shifted slightly against my chest.
I placed my hand against his back, trying to keep him asleep.
By then, people were beginning to back up in the aisle.
A flight attendant hurried toward us and checked both sets of boarding passes.
Her face tightened.
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